[ He takes a sip too, then hands it back. ]

You were a kid. She's a kid right now, even people who aren't tasked with the fate of the world change a lot from nineteen to twenty-three.

Just give her space, and if you need a middle man, I'm not terrible at conflict de-escalation.

[ This isn't the kind of conflict he was ever trained to de-escalate, but he knows anger and he's sturdy. ]

And hey, if she remembered this, maybe she'll catch up with you eventually.